raw silk

In the raw -- or even attired -- you ought not simply to show up on his doorstep unannounced.  
He does go out from time to time, you know.

Even were he at home, he might be indisposed.  Or not disposed just now to entertain you --
yes, he could be entertaining someone else.

You've lived in this world a goodly while -- well, decades at any rate.  Shouldn't you know better by now?
Let me put it this way:  what in flaming Hell were you thinking?